On October 18th my PR Tactics 2 class got the chance to hear from Bryon Riesch. Bryon Riesch is a Marquette graduate who currently works for R&R Insurance. When Bryon was in college, some friends decided to have a slip ‘n slide at one of the house parties that they were attending. When Bryon went down the slip ‘n slide he ended up with a neck injury that ultimately paralyzed him. He had to spend three months in the hospital and 26 days in the ICU. He has a C5 injury which means that he does not have any use of his wrists or his fingers. After Bryon came out of the hospital, he decided to go back to college (specifically Marquette) and finish his degree. In 2001, Bryon started the Bryon Riesch Paralysis Foundation that gears towards raising money for those who are in a situation similar to his. This money helps pay for expenses, which for those with disabilities is very costly.
I really enjoyed Bryon Riesch as a speaker. He has learned how to manage his life with a disability. He has turned what some may see as a shortcoming into a way to help others by speaking to individuals like those in my tactics class, and by creating his foundation. Bryon’s personality definitely came through while he was speaking to our class. He was great to listen to because it was easy to tell that he is very open about his disability, willing to answer questions and even make jokes. You could also tell that he has public speaking experience and that he is very comfortable when talking about his accident and hardships that have come with having a disability. The fact that Bryon is a very positive and witty person made the whole class more comfortable when it came to asking questions and listening to him speak.
There were two items that Bryon said during his speech that surprised me. One thing was that there is a 75% unemployment rate for people with disabilities. I also think that the whole class was taken aback when he said that a new wheelchair can cost as much as $30,000. Bryon also talked about the fact that once you get your wheelchair, you will need to purchase a van, spend about $25,000 for a ramp, and more money ($20,000) to put aside for controls.
Bryon also had some tips for communicating with people with disabilities. When communicating with people with disabilities, one of Bryon’s key points was to be sure to talk to the person with the disability, not the caregiver. Another point that Bryon made was that it’s ok to ask if they need help, just don’t ask it over and over again. Something else that was brought up was to not touch the wheelchair; it should be seen as a part of them. The last thing that was stressed was to not apologize. Bryon used the example of someone asking a person in a wheelchair “want to go for a walk?” He said that if you apologize, it will only make the situation more awkward.
Bryon was also able to give the class a few lessons about life. One of his key lessons was to not be afraid to dream. Something that he said that I feel stuck with students was to “live your reality now to get to your dream later.” Something else that Bryon mentioned was to learn how to be creative; there is a way to do it, you just have to figure out how. I feel that that statement goes for people with and without disabilities. Something else that he said that goes along with that is “where there’s a will there’s a way.” But, probably the biggest inspirational message that stuck out to me when Bryon was speaking was “reach out your hand and you’ll be amazed at what you get back.” I think that Bryon has shown that he lives by this statement through his journey of having a disability. Through learning to deal with his disability, he has had to ask others more frequently for help physically and through building his foundation, which has grown rapidly. Bryon is a true inspiration.